Secrets That Will Break Your Relationship
Secrets have never been known to form a good foundation for any relationship.If you have lately been dating a person, you will have a pretty good idea concerning their lifestyle and even preferences.Worth noting, however, is the fact that there may be some dark secrets he isn’t willing to let you know about.If you suspect that something doesn’t connect and you wonder what he is hiding, look out for some telltale signs.
If he keeps it secret about his parents, there may be explanations to this. He may shy away from the fact that you may want to be introduced to the parents if the topic comes. He may not get along well with the parents for reasons he wants to keep in secrecy.Whatever the reason is, you must establish where they come from and where they grew up so that you can continue with the relationship.
Do not be at peace if you don’t know his friends yet.Be careful not to be going out with someone who always talks about meeting his friends who seem to be virtual.Actually, he may be using the friends as proxy for covering someone important in his life or a bad habit. He may try to do this since his friends may not approve of you or you may not approve of them.Whatever makes up for the reason if you would know the truth, you might need to use some force to see clearly.
Although you may know what work he does, he never talks about it. What he does may be different from what he said he does or he may not be working at all.
If he doesn’t mention his exs’ name, be worried. Reasons may abound as to why he refrains from mentioning the names. The reason for this may be that they are still good friends. Their past relationships may be something they loathe and don’t want to talk about them.Either way; you must be sure that he is not hiding something dangerous.
There may be pockets of darkness or secrets in the life of your new man. It is not good to rule out the possibility that your man may simply be shy. A serious man in a relationship will hardly hide his home and will actually offer to take you to know his home. He can also drop you by to see his place.
Do not allow your newly found man to get away with keeping you in the dark and then taking advantage of you.